Jennifer's, Samantha's and John's concerns are common, because according to the U. Census Bureau, 19.3 million Americans get divorced each year, and many of them date and eventually remarry.
Perhaps you share their concerns, as you're also wondering how you can reenter the dating world after divorce — and do so according to God's standards. Divorce is the death of the dreams you had when you committed yourself "for better or for worse." As a Christian, you can't simply separate from your spouse one day and hit the dating field the next.
Table of Contents: SEE ALSO: How to Stop Being Offended All of the Time A Brief Overview: What Does the Bible Say about Divorce? This means owning your part in the process, owning your emotions and finding a supportive community that will offer Biblical counsel as you go.
But for Christians whose marriages are crumbling around them, the need for helpful, Biblical resources is a must. The following are just a few steps you need to begin taking to find healing. Recognize the trauma, shock and loss and take time to grieve B. Readjust to singleness and avoid dating until you can truly say, “If I'm single the rest of my life, it's okay." D. SEE ALSO: When Your Dream is the Last Thing Your Spouse Wants Each step is integral to the healing process.
The following is a resource guide for Christian women who are going through divorce, or women who are divorced and seeking guidance for building their lives again post-divorce. The First Steps a Christian Should Take after Divorce 2. Dealing with Difficult Family Dynamics after Divorce 4. You need to be able to grieve your loss and deal with the aftermath of your divorce before you can come close to healing.
Even though she has decided to wait a few years until her daughter is grown to reenter the dating scene, she's confused about how to proceed.
"When Madaline is out of the house I want to date, but I don't know how." Samantha has been divorced for only a year, but would like to start dating again even though her two boys are still in elementary school.
And as with any loss, big or small, time is needed to grieve and to reassess who you are, where you've been and where God wants you to go.
Healing is also necessary to follow God's command to" do unto others what you would have them do unto you," (Matthew ).I struggle to find a meaningful purpose to center my life around.I wonder when God will finally bring the right man into my life to love and be loved by.Like Jennifer, she needs some advice but is concerned about how she can make the transition into dating easy on her children. He'd like to date again, and some of his friends say he should start looking for a woman now — after all, he's getting divorced soon.But John knows better because he's still married, and dating now would go against God's desires. For those who have never experienced divorce, it can be a word that drums up fear or perhaps judgment.