Not all shy men will have issues that intense or have every characteristic apply to them.I'll list some quick suggestions at the end, but for the most part I'll describe the issues shy guys deal with and let you draw your own conclusions about how to act.
When it was time to go, we went to his car (it was closer to where we were - I didn't mind).
I'm talking to a guy who, although older than me by 2 years, is VERY inexperienced.
Over the years several women have written me to tell me reading this site has helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing.
With that in mind I thought I'd try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it's like to be a man who's really shy and inexperienced with women.
Both times when we talked, the conversation flowed well and lasted for over 20 minutes.
At the end of our second conversation, I wasn't sure if he was going to suggest meeting up, so I mentioned it.
As with all the other writing on this site, the points here are from a mix of my own experience and accounts I've come across of how shy guys say they think.
I also wrote a follow up to this article on some of the unique issues shy women struggle with.
And, occasionally, I will smoke pot with some friends at parties, but not often enough to be considered a stoner.
I'm not a party animal, I'm just..more experienced in every way.
"Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there.