I was sitting right there as she's talking to this dude, and she looks at me and says "I don't know, are we exclusive? Whether that means we have an emotional attachment or not is a different question. I do my best to ensure my sexual health and part of that is not bouncing back and forth with multiple partners.And getting tested fairly regularly.– /u/Xjohnson XNever understood the whole "exclusive" thing.So I've been dating this girl now for about 6 months which is the longest time I've dated a girl for.
You ask "are you seeing anyone regularly" giving her a chance to say no, then you say "If we're going to do this again, I don't want anyone else in the picture". Thats just my opinion and Im not really deep into the psychology of pick up yet, I just do what works for me.
Theres guys on here that Im sure can break it down for you better than me.
Is it too It should never be immediately, honestly.
That's one option that should never be on the table.
You feel excited about the idea of finally calling someone "my boyfriend." You might have started calling him this already in conversation because it's easier than discussing him as "this guy I've been seeing who's really amazing and could be, like, a Real Thing." 3.
You stopped checking online dating sites for new matches.but it just feels weird to ask a girl to be my "girlfriend" as if I want a label on our relationship..Savoy says that a girl will usually demand exclusivity however this has not been the case and I havent asked either.When you're at the store, you pick up his favorite candy/soda/lemonade just because.You don't even have to wonder about whether or not he'll be coming over sometime soon because you know he will. This is because making plans with him is incredibly easy.Just imagine a version of her that actually comes off as innocent and sweet. What is the best strategy to set the record straight? Instead, expect your complete indifference to be the primus motor for her falling head over heals in love you, you alpha-dog. The strategy I suspect most interesting is the one where you extract an obligation from her, which she will stick to, without you having to give one in return. I think the first date after just a makeout is gonna come on a little strong, seems kind of desperate unless she REALLY likes you you might get some push back.