I find it absolutely pathetic that I even have to state this but it has to be stated: I November 4, 2012. A rational mind would conclude that women who are fat would inherently be ashamed for their lack of discipline, laziness, and poor health, but it’s quite the opposite now.I left Orlando, Florida in the pursuit of my lifelong dream. The elites of the USA have now constructed a crazy following called being “body positive” ,their creed is that you are healthy and beautiful at any weight.For most this is common sense, but for those who deny reality in this situation, soon will not experience reality but the eternal darkness of death.
Not to mention that the woman who had posted that status is plus-size, but has kids and is 43 years old.Those are 3 strikes against a female when looking a suitable lover and potential long-term mate. A woman on the verge of infertility [menopause] does NOT and CANNOT wield the same influence in dating as a girl in her sexual prime!Now, beauty is personal to each individual who’s judging what beauty means to him or her. In the same breath, they are somewhat naïve to their perceived handicap in dating.Earlier today, a plus-sizer, a distant acquaintance of mines on Facebook, posted a status about why guys on Facebook just see her as someone to “netflix and chill” with, rather than to wine and dine and take out.To restore access and understand how to better interact with our site to avoid this in the future, please have your system administrator contact [email protected]
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Here are some of the advocates of the body positive movement: Anyone with a semblance of intelligence can tell that is is NOT good for you as a human being.
The truth about American women is they refuse to believe the negative health effects of extra body weight and its link to chronic illnesses such as diabetes, heart disease, stroke, respiratory disease and cancer. In case you didn’t know, the fatter you are, the sooner you will die.
I refrained from being blunt as possible on her post [that the reason for this is because she’s on the heavier side of things and guys don’t feel that they should invest as much], but I did chime in after another plus-sizer had commented about standards, and how big girls who have high standards should maintain those standards. Now- my argument was very simplistic without being blunt: Women should lower their standards and expectations in dating.
I stopped short of saying “fatties should lower their standards”, but realistically speaking, the more physical baggages [pounds] a woman has, the lower her standards should and must become if she wishes to get some play in the dating-market place!
Personally, this article is constructed from pure facts, logic, data, and real life experience. The once decent dating marketplace, had become a wasteland.