Or last week did this person say one thing about, say, summer plans, and this week it’s a completely different story? “This is rarely a good sign, and can mean your date is deceitful or hiding something.” In other words, this kind of person probably has a reason for cultivating those different personas and stories—he or she may be juggling more on the personal-life front than you’re aware of.
Being a player is something a man wears proudly (if secretly) because he knows he can do something which few other men are able to do: quickly attract and seduce women.
But even so, where is the incentive for a man to do this as opposed to having a relationship?
But in person, watch out for major inconsistencies.
“Is the person’s profile radically different than real-life presentation?
he term “sinking stomach” doesn’t even begin to describe the moment when you realize that the person you’re on a date with — who seemed perfect in both their online profile and subsequent phone calls — is nothing but a cold-hearted player.
If you’re looking for a serious relationship, you want to catch those clues sooner rather than later, before you fall too hard for someone who’s only interested in passing dalliances.The term was popularized by the hip-hop culture, but was commonly recognized among urban American blacks in the 1970s.1: A guy who is sustaining supposedly exclusive relationships with multiple girls simultaneously 2: A male who is skilled at manipulating (“playing”) others, and especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them, when in reality they are only interested in sex.But if you sense too much vagueness and hesitation in conversation, your date could be a cover-up artist. “Yes, mystery can be attractive, but too much mystery usually spells trouble.If your love interest, after a few dates, still doesn’t want to open up about past relationships or can’t be pinned down regarding hopes for future relationships, consider it a warning sign.” It’s only human for someone to embellish on his or her best qualities a bit in an online dating profile.The beginning of a relationship with a player will usually feel like a whirlwind and you may be knocked off your feet by their charm, enthusiasm and interest in your life.