"It's not all full-swap swinging or poly-lifestyles.Open relationships can be found among even the most vanilla couples." He added that Open Minded is not a hookup site or a cheating site but a place for polyamorous people to find meaningful relationships that all parties involved consent to.The term, which was coined by the now defunct Kerista Commune in San Francisco, is used to describe the joy people feel when their partners are engaging in activities that make them happy.
Polyamory helps me do that without putting all my needs on my husband.'She said they first brought up the subject after moving in together aged 18 when they came across the question 'how do you feel about monogamy?' in a magazine survey and they both selected the answer 'it's an unrealistic expectation.'She said smartphones have been a 'huge blessing' to people in more than one relationship: 'It's so much easier to make people feel like they're part of your day by sending a quick hello text or a picture of something that reminded you of them that helps keep them close to you even as you have a separate life.' Lisa said both her and her husband had many dependency issues at the start of their relationship and having multiple partners has highlighted that they need to be independent.But when she met her she claims she 'totally got it' and saw how it 'brought out a totally different side' of her husband.It seems that people are talking about polyamory now more than ever.Rebecca, 34, and her primary partner started using Open Minded to find additional partners after meeting on another dating site.
"As more people realize that the life-long monogamy model doesn't work most of the time, people are opening their minds to alternative relationship styles," she said.A minority group for those who find strength in numbers.A community for people who like their intimate lives communal.Polyamory – the practice of openly engaging in multiple loving relationships – acquired its name in the 1990s, and has been gaining ground as a recognised lifestyle and movement ever since.With the UK's first "poly" website just launched, and Polyday taking place in London later this month, it seems there's never been a better time for "ethical non-monogamists" to stand up and be counted. This isn't polygamy, where one person (usually male) has numerous spouses who cannot pursue other liaisons themselves.According to Ok Cupid's data, interest in polyamory is on the rise.