Your teen years are a time when you find your place in the world, and are faced with a lot of challenges.Although dating can be fun and exciting, it can create issues.
you might feel hurt, or could hurt your partner if one of you decides to end the relationship. Learning how to deal with these issues is one of the challenges of dating. While we want to believe that hand holding, moonlight walks, gifts, sweet words, and loving glances are all part of a dating relationship, and that these new feelings and experiences are so wonderful … You could be in a relationship where your partner is verbally, emotionally, physically, or sexually abusive. Maybe you think that it's your job to make the relationship work.Maybe you don't know that it's notokay for your partner to beat you. Teenagers can often misinterpret abusive and violent behavior as a show of love.Maybe you're afraid that there's no one else in the whole world who would want you. Hitting, yelling, threatening, name calling, and using and hurting you sexually isn't love!Maybe you think it's your fault that your partner is so abusive … can include ridiculing, name-calling, threats, constant criticism, controlling, belittling, and other negative behavior to scare their partner or destroy her/his self-esteem.Did you know that one in three adolescents experience some form of dating abuse before the age of 18?
Discover the warning signs, learn how to get help and make a game plan so that you can make a difference in your community!
Being a teenager is exciting, challenging, and confusing.
Dating is one of the most awesome things about being a teen.
At least that’s what teens said in a recent story about online romance in the student newspaper at my daughters’ suburban Maryland high school.
According to that story, “students initiate relationships online to meet new people, avoid stressful in-person meetings and hide their dating lives from their parents.” That’s certainly the case for some kids, according to my 17-year-old.
Abuse occurs in all types of relationships and among people with varying backgrounds of age, race, religion, financial status, sexual orientation and education.