Greg seemed nice enough to meet for coffee, but who knew?
“This will simply be another disappointment.” I felt like I’d been in contact with every reject out there: the guy with the cripple fetish, the guy with the wife, the guy that would communicate endlessly on email and phone but never showed up for in-person meetings and, of course, the one that knew I was in a chair and had seen many pictures of me but walked right past me at a very small Starbucks! So I sent him a message saying, “You can’t miss me—I’m the one in the wheelchair.” I wasn’t sure what to expect in response.
Sitting in a wheelchair doesn't necessarily scream 'tall, dark and handsome' does it?
That’s why he decided to provide access from within Loveable Dating to How Do I Date, a site he created in 2013 to provide dating and relationship advice from qualified psychologists and therapists.There they can read over 1000 articles about dating and relationships and they can ask specific questions and receive confidential answers from over 60 of the world’s leading psychologists and therapists.The process of dating itself is generally highly choreographed so that each person can demonstrate their assets and not their flaws.But what if, like me, your most characteristic trait is the thing that discourages people from dating you in the first place?The chair had definitely been a deal breaker with other guys. Is he looking for a young version of his mother to fulfill an Oedipus complex?
His message back said, “Okay, will you be coming by Handy DART? I had to stop analyzing everything and meet the guy! It was a yucky, rainy day (which was really irritating because I wanted to wear a semi tarty top) and as with all of my “first dates”, I felt sick to my stomach.Apart from good advice, the essential ingredient of any dating site is a large number of members to choose from..Through it’s partnership with one of the biggest dating platforms in the world, Dating Factory, Loveable Dating already has thousands of disabled singles to choose from.If you surf the net you will find that online disabled dating club sites have free registration and once you enter your information and details, they are able to help you find a partner or friends.The site has lots of profiles and you will be surprised to see sheer numbers of the differently abled just like you.Online disabled dating clubs look to helping those who have unique needs.